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A Moment of Consciousness
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 Valentine's Day is February 14 th. Most couples celebrate this much anticipated "holiday of love" by spending that day together and doing something romantic. During this month, every shopping mall, or store you go into is decorated with candles or red hearts, where vendors are selling cute teddy bears, romantic cards, or sexy lingerie's. The flower shops are busier then ever, taken in numerous orders for red roses. Valentines Day is great for lovers, as they plan ways to rekindle their relationship, but what about those individuals who are single? This particular day is so commercialized, that as a single person, you begin to feel bad that you don't have that special someone to share the day with.
But single people must keep in mind that Valentine's Day is not just to be celebrated by romantically involved couples. It is a reminder how important it is for us to express love to those we are closed to. We can therefore celebrate Valentine's Day with our friends, children, siblings, parents, grandparents, teachers or anyone who has touched our life in such a special way. We must take advantage of this holiday by expressing our love and gratitude to those so dear to us, and what better way to do so, by presenting your love one with a bouquet of roses, chocolates, a card, or better yet verbally expressing in person how you feel about that special someone.
Singles can make the most of Valentine's Day by spending the day in the company of those they love or finding the time to pamper themselves. Here are some tips and ideas on how singles can celebrate Valentine's Day in a delightful and memorable fashion:
Valentine's Day Ideas for Singles
 Pamper you
Go to a spa, and treat yourself to a facial, pedicure or manicure. Make that appointment with your stylist for a new do.
Hang out with friends
Go to a comedy show with your close friends, and laugh all night. Find a nightclub that is fun and hip or plan your own Valentines Day party at home. Check out the latest movie, and just have a blast in the company of loving friends.
Forget the Past
Don't look back at old relationships as missed opportunities. Understand that everything in life happens for a reason. If that person is no longer in your life for whatever reason, then wish them well and keep moving on. Know that true love takes time and patient, and it's better to wait on love then to put yourself in an unhealthy relationship, and be miserable and sorry in the long run.
 Express Gratitude to our Love ones
Show your mom, dad, grandparent or child how much they mean to you. Send your family member or close friend a bouquet of flowers, take them to see a Broadway show, or you can surprise them with a home cooked meal. If you are a single parent, make that day special for your son or daughter. Do arts -n- craft activity together, take them to the zoo, or amusement park. If you don't do it often, tell them how much you love them and express your affection with lots of hugs and kisses.
Fall in Love with Yourself
Don't feel there is something wrong with you if you're not in a relationship. Your worth comes from what you are, and not who you're with. In order to experience genuine, mature love with another person, we must first fall in love with ourselves. Loving oneself is the key to true happiness. It's ok to be alone sometimes. Being alone allows us to really get to know who we are, and also allows us to appreciate our God given inner beauty and outer beauty. Look in the mirror and tell yourself everyday that YOU are a gem, worthy of love, happiness, and a great relationship with self, as well as with another.
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